A Letter to My Boyfriend About My Hurt Feelings
Dear John,
I hope this letter finds you well. I have been sitting with my thoughts for quite some time now, and I feel it’s important for me to express how I’ve been feeling lately. I know that we have always been open with each other, but there are certain things that I haven’t shared with you, and I believe it’s time for us to address them.
Firstly, I want to talk about the hurt feelings I’ve been experiencing lately. I know that we both have our ups and downs, but lately, I’ve felt like I’ve been taken for granted. It’s not that I expect you to be perfect, but I do hope for a little more consideration and effort from you. When I bring up certain issues or concerns, I sometimes feel like they are brushed aside or not taken seriously. This has left me feeling undervalued and, quite frankly, hurt.
Our relationship has been a beautiful journey, and I am grateful for the love and support we have shared over the years. However, I can’t ignore the fact that there have been moments where I’ve felt disconnected from you. I understand that life can get busy, and we all have our own responsibilities, but I believe that a strong relationship requires effort from both sides. It’s not enough for me to feel like I’m always the one reaching out and making an effort.
Another concern I have is the lack of communication between us. I realize that we both have different communication styles, but I feel like we haven’t been as open with each other as we used to be. I miss the days when we would talk about everything, from our daily routines to our dreams and aspirations. It seems like we’ve grown apart in that sense, and I want to rekindle that connection.
John, I am not writing this letter to place blame or to start an argument. Instead, I am reaching out to you with the hope that we can address these issues and work through them together. I believe that with love, understanding, and effort, we can overcome these challenges and strengthen our bond.
I understand that change takes time, and I am willing to be patient. However, I also need reassurance that you are committed to making things right. Please know that my hurt feelings are not just about the past; they are also about the future. I want to continue building a life with you, but I need to feel secure and valued in our relationship.
Thank you for taking the time to read this letter. I hope that we can have an honest conversation about these matters soon. I love you, and I want our relationship to thrive. Let’s work together to make it happen.
With love and hope,
Emily
