A Letter to My Sons Absent Father
Dear Dad,
I sit here, with a pen in hand, and a heart full of emotions that I’ve been carrying for years. This letter is for you, my absent father, who has been a part of my life but not in the way I had always imagined. I’ve been meaning to write this for a long time, and today feels like the right day to express my thoughts and feelings.
When I was a child, I used to dream of the perfect family life, with both parents present, sharing the love and laughter that I saw in other homes. I never understood why you were not there, why you chose to be absent from our lives. I remember the questions that would pop into my head, the silent nights when I would wonder where you were and what you were doing. Those questions have followed me through the years, shaping who I am today.
As I grew older, I learned to cope with your absence. I filled my life with friends, activities, and dreams of my own. I tried to create a life that would make you proud, even though I knew you were not there to witness it. I wanted to show you that I could be strong, independent, and successful, despite the fact that you were not there to guide me.
But, Dad, there are moments when the pain of your absence becomes overwhelming. I find myself missing the simple things, like the sound of your voice, the warmth of your embrace, and the advice that only a father could give. I miss the way you would teach me to fish, the way you would make me laugh, and the way you would comfort me when I was sad.
As I look back on my life, I realize that your absence has had a profound impact on me. It has shaped my character, my values, and my dreams. I am grateful for the lessons I’ve learned, even though they were hard-won. I am grateful for the strength I’ve gained, even though it was through struggle.
Dad, I want you to know that I forgive you for not being there. I understand that life can be complicated, and sometimes we make choices that we later regret. I hope that you have found peace and happiness in your own life, even if it was without us.
As I continue to grow and face the challenges of life, I carry with me the love and lessons that you have given me. I hope that one day, we can find a way to reconnect and share the love that I know you have for us. Until then, I will cherish the memories, the love, and the lessons that you have left behind.
With love and hope,
[Your Name]
